True North, strong and unemployed

So we have been back in Canada for about two months now, and I have to say…. it’s not all it’s cracked up to be.  Having lived abroad for the past 2 and a half years, Pete and I really got to experience all these amazing and wonderful cultures around the world. And when people asked us “where are you from?” with such pride we would respond “Canada!” and know it was the best country in the world.  We would tell people about how clean and wonderful and amazing Canada was, and we believed it… until we came back.

Being born and raised in Canada we grew to love and respect our home country.  But as we grew older and more world traveled we came to realize that the Country we loved doesn’t quite love us back.  It is like a bad relationship where you keep telling yourself “it’ll get better, we’re just going through a rough patch”.  But as you look at all the people around you, in the same situations, you begin to realize its not just a rough patch, it’s Canada.

Our whole life we were pressured to go to university because that’s how you get a well paying job. But after spending forty grand on an undergrad you never utilize you leave this wonderful little bubble called university and step into the rat race.

You start working an ok job, thinking to yourself it only gets better from here but 10 years later your stuck with the same company doing relatively the same job and only getting paid slightly more. But as time goes by, you realize how much stuff you absolutely need, a new TV, a new car, and the newest ipod, ipad, iphone, i-everything.  You start the cycle and your life becomes more work than life. And the hardest part to adapt to all of this is the fact that these companies, this country, doesn’t really value you or your hard work… if they could have someone in china do it for cheaper, they would.

Pete and I came from Korea, where they admired our education and realized it was a great feat and respected us.  Korea is such a proud country, they buy Korean because they know it supports their economy, where Canada has followed suit with the States and to turn he biggest profit they outsource.  When does it stop being about the money and start being about a better life and future for your country?

Being back in Canada the only jobs we have interviewed for are entry level minimum wage jobs that are quite frankly insulting to all our hard work we have done and all of our achievements. I feel as though our pride in our country diminishes when other countries offer us a much brighter, more financial stable future. It is frustrating and hard to accept that rejection from the one thing you loved so much growing up. It is like that boy you spent your entire life trying to impress telling your flat out “sorry you’re just not good enough”.

So, as Canada day is approaching you see the stores fill with towels covered in maple leaves, clothes in red and white and maple leaf hats, bags, cups, stickers, shoes, ipod case for your latest model ipod… all of course sporting their little “Made in China” tag. In my heart of hearts, I love Canada and always will. I will still respond with excitement, pride and happiness when someone asks we where I am from. I just wish that there were better opportunities here for young professionals wishing to succeed and not wanting to settle for minimum wage… but until then Canada will just remain that distant, out of reach dream.

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